I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 and a half years. We own a house and a dog together. He is 27 and I am 24. We seem to spend our life bickering - mostly me feeling under appreciated and him feeling I nag him. He’s very lazy and doesn’t help around the house at all. He turns everything into an argument but neither of us can ever see the other persons point of view. I convince myself I’d be happier if I ended it, and then the next day we’re best mates again. When we’re good we’re really good, we have fun, we laugh, but this usually only lasts for a few days before we’re sitting in separate rooms again not talking to each other. We don’t have sex often anymore, maybe once a month at a push and it’s always me that initiates it. He doesn’t work very hard and doesn’t make much money, so mostly I support our household financially, and when he isn’t working he mostly wants to play his ps4, rather than spend time with me. I do love him, and we’ve been through so much together. I also love his family, but I can’t help but feel like there is more to life, and one day i worry I will resent him if I stay when I’m not truly 100% happy. I don’t really talk to my friends or family about my concerns because I don’t want anyone to think badly of him. What should I do?? Advice appreciated!!