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Used & hurt

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scaredofchange · 12/01/2021 21:20

Feel so sad & angry tonight. I started seeing a guy in 2019 he had just broke up with his ex but really laid it on how special I was etc. Long story short I was a rebound and as soon as she wanted him back he went. I picked myself up and moved on. A year later out of the blue he contacts me again lays it on he was used to her so went back but was thinking about me and he broke up with her & left it 3 months to contact me to be on his own etc. Really fooled me stupid I know. We started dating for a while but I could feel his interest going to the point where he ghosted me. I didn't follow up or chase I felt humiliated, but kept if together. Yet tonight scrolling through Facebook There's a picture of him and his ex out for a walk together hand in hand. I'm just so angry I let him use me twice. I feel like such an idiot he must think I am a joke. I have him on social media and really feel like telling him how awful a person he is to lead someone on twice, but I know I should just leave it. Literally feel like such a mug. Need a hug 😢

OP posts:
nevernotstruggling · 12/01/2021 23:26

@YuletidePizza

Don't feel bad, you were open to love and a relationship and he was an arsehole. It is his loss. You live and learn, it really wasn't your fault.
This sums it up perfectly
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