Just need to vent, yesterday I had to go to my sil home to deliver some food as she is now shielding .
Forgot to text on the way but didn't think anything of it.
Drive thru the village she is in towards the the supermarket and thought I saw her but dismissed it until I got to hers about 30 later after doing her shopping etc.
No sign of life at hers so tapped window , just in time to see her quickly put the wine down .
She stank of booze and I'm in no doubt it was her I saw previously ( lime green top I saw before).
I didn't say anything till later that night she rang to say I'd forgotten milk and gave a big speech about shielding and I don't understand the pressures of being a mommy.
I lost the plot with her saying I won't be running around after her any More and I bet she doesn't have a shielding letter and she's ok enough to go shops to get booze and mess about with another man .
We have a fraught relationship as it is but she causes friction between me and my oh.
I'm angry why should I run around after her when all she is doing is staying at home.
I've unfollowed her on fb as I'm sick of the poor me things.