Abusive behaviour

[Madmat84]

Is there any way i stop my husband be horrible to me all the time. He us breaking me. I used to be a happy person. Now I'm just sad all the time. I'm working from home so I'm getting no rest bite from him. My kids just think is normal to act they way he does. I just cry all the time.

The only person who can stop his behaviour is him. There is nothing you can do, nothing you can say that will stop him - except leave. This is who he is. I bet you've tried to talk to him time and time again in the past until you gave up trying. I bet you've cried, begged him to stop, tried to rationalise his behaviour, made excuses for him and had your heart broken by him.

This is what makes him happy, secure and powerful. There are no magic tricks or magic words to change him. You can only change yourself and circumstances.

How long has he been like that? Are you able to leave him? I'm concerned that the stress is going to affect your physical health eventually, and it's a horrible atmosphere for children to be in.

I had one of them. Nope. He's getting high on keeping you all stressed.