I need some advice. My marriage has been over for sometime and I want to leave. I’m so worn out by our crap interactions that I want to start again and find peace of mind. We’re just not compatible anymore and I’m sick of the stonewalling.
I have two small kids at primary school and live a couple of hours away from my family. The question I have is should I move to be near family? I have no support system here. I’ve got a couple of friends but nobody who’d pop round at 3am if I was taken poorly for example. In fact, if that happened my family would probably drive over to help. Does it make sense to be so far from them. I don’t know what to do. I don’t have any friends where I grew up and it’s an expensive area. I have an ok relationship with family but my mother can be difficult and controlling. I feel stuck. I want out but I’m not sure I can do this alone. Where I live now is cool and near the sea but expensive. I’ve lived here for more of my adult life than I lived in my home town. What have other people done after divorce?