Help ! I need advice .. my husband through out our relationship has constantly bullied me when its comes to taking contraception he tell people what ever type im on (and theres been a few as i swap to make him stop) is making me mental and uses it as an excuse for any opposing views i have to his or as an excuse any time im annoyed at him for what ever reason even for expample secrerly racking up debt on a credit card. Well untill sept i had the copper coil removed as hes gone on and on telling friends and family ect it was affecting my mental health and i didnt tell him i know that wrong but i wanted to see if it was actually contraception effecting me turns out nothing changed in me. A few weeks later i came clean and told him it was removed i cant bear lieing and now his throwing it back in my face any oppion or disagreement with have saying im need mental help for lieing to him. I dont know what advice im looking for really just am i in the wrong?