To Tell Him He Has Won

[Tilpop]

I'm not strong enough to deal with my DH.

He has a better job than me, nice car....I'm below him. And he makes me feel that way.

He is argumentative, selfish and degrading. I try to fight my corner but I'm useless.

He wins every time. He makes me feel worthless.

I want out but I don't know how or where to go.

I just want to be loved, and cuddled and talked to like a normal person .

He's won

I've had enough

Get a solicitor and start making a plan. You win by starting a new life without him.

What Aquamarine said. Nobody should be demoralised like that.

He hasn’t won because he’s lost at being a decent human being. He’ll always be a loser.

"He hasn’t won because he’s lost at being a decent human being. He’ll always be a loser."

This in spades. And now he has lost you, making him a two time loser. Make your plans to leave, OP, and enjoy watching his nasty little side show with a little smile, knowing soon you won't have to be his audience. That will drive him nuts! x

@Notanotherfreak

He hasn’t won because he’s lost at being a decent human being. He’ll always be a loser.

Definitely this.

Turn this around by making a plan.

Reach out for support IRL.

OP he sounds like a bully.... glad you've made this decision

@Notanotherfreak

He hasn’t won because he’s lost at being a decent human being. He’ll always be a loser.

This