I've had a man in my life for the last 4 months. The first 2 were great, the last 2 have been complicated to say the least and we (more him) decided not to pursue any relationship but to remain as friends as we work together. No point in adding the details particularly.
The last week or 2, he's been fairly up and down with contact. Last week I sent a message saying that it was starting to get easier to not think about him all the time. He came back with a huge emotionally filled message saying all the things he liked about me and how he felt and how he was finding it difficult etc etc and he would call me, then he disappeared for a day.
I replied in a casual way, he replied again on New Year's Eve with the last sentence saying he would "call me next year" 🙄 and I've not heard from him since. I replied to the message, and sent another one this morning saying I had a free morning if he fancied a chat. Nothing. I can see he's read these messages so is effectively ghosting me.
The question is; do you block and try to stay strong with no contact? Or do you send one last message and say "your behaviour is really confusing and hurtful and I deserve better etc etc" but worded better obviously 😂 and let him come back with a reason? Or, probably, more silence?