He messaged to say
'im fucking calling u, pick up now' (at 22:44)
I went up to bed an noticed phone buzzing at 22:44 picked up and he began shouting on the phone asking why I didn't pick up, I replied I was in the bathroom. He continued shouting and swearing that hes been trying to call me, I looked at my phone but no missed calls. He then just shouts at me calls me all sorts and says I've ruined his new year again this year.
OH is abusive towards me but even this is just next level mind games.
I had to write this out because Im actually confused if I have done something wrong.
He makes me feel like I'm losing it. I couldn't tell even when he was shouting at me, at one point I actually thought he was joking and I changed the subject. I was even trying to reason with him and even sent him a screenshot shot of his calls to show when he called me like he said, but he has blocked my number and messages.
My head is so confused. All I was looking forward to was an early night but instead I'm crying into my pillow silently so LO wont notice.