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FWB... or not

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FWBurger · 30/12/2020 22:44

I might get flamed for COVID etc but I'm single, living in tied accommodation and essentially excluded from society.

An ex, who I still love, messaged essentially asking for a bootie call which, tbf, I was pretty chuffed with because it's been a tough year and lonely as fuck.

I know that earlier this year he proposed to someone in a foreign country and he's not been able to see her since probably March.

I only know this bcse they're quite high profile and I saw it on social media (how my heart broke).

Anyway, I assumed that our casual dalliance was because he was now single... I happened upon his new beau's insta page and she's firmly engaged to him.

FUUUUUUCCCKKKKK. What do I do now?

I genuinely didn't think to check beforehand and now I'm the baddy.

I've not heard from him since. I genuinely did not instigate this... ugh.

OP posts:
AsCoolAsKimDeal · 30/12/2020 23:05

How are you the baddie? You're not engaged to her, your sleazy ex is. It seems you had a lucky escape.

FWBurger · 30/12/2020 23:15

Thank you @AsCoolAsKimDeal it's new territory for me...

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Rainbowqueeen · 31/12/2020 03:04

What a shit he is
Only thing you can do is block and delete on all platforms.

Sorry this happened to you but he is definitely the baddie, not you

FWBurger · 31/12/2020 11:04

I guess I just leave his fiancé to find out what he's like

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Packitin · 31/12/2020 12:40

He wanted a quick shag as he is away from his fiance and figured you'd be up for it. Simple.

He's a prick and it shows his true colours. Your heart broke when you saw them engaged....ha....now surely you can see she has not got the prize here and you are well shot.

I don't believe you didnt check her insta before meeting him but that's my opinion. Either way, the blame lies with him. He cheated. You didnt.

Wouldn't let him use you like that again though. Fuck him off. You'll get hurt

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