Was talking to a guy a few months ago. I’ve met him a few times before about 2 years ago through friends. We made contact again after he replied to one of my stories and we were texting and FaceTiming because of the pandemic. We got on really well and seemed to have a lot in common and even when I met him before I felt a connection with him (but he had a girlfriend at this time). He did, however, tell me that before things got further and before anyone got hurt, he wasn’t looking for a relationship and he wanted to go travelling next year (I know this is true because I saw he actually had flights booked and cancelled). I thought it was actually quite a decent thing for him to be honest with me and we stopped chatting (we have since sent the odd message such as merry Christmas and about football etc).
This was about 3 months ago and I can’t help but think that we really clicked and am yet to speak to a guy who I’ve had that sort of connection with. I really miss talking to him and the other day, he shared something on his Facebook about how it’s unlikely he’ll be going travelling anytime soon.
I’m really tempted to message him and tell him how I feel, as I have nothing to lose, but I dunno if it’s a good idea and I have no idea how I’d word it without sounding strange? I feel I’d regret it if I didn’t?