I’m looking for friendly positive advice only please.
I was dating someone for a while and finally started to fall for him when he ended things. The reason why is that him and his ex split up in September after a 6 year relationship. She didn’t want kids. They were officially separated a month when we met but he said he had kind of checked out a few months before that. They own a house together and she moved out and they now have no contact. He is a trainee in his job and will become fully qualified June time 2021. She is still on the mortgage until he is fully trained as he cant get the mortgage alone without her too. This has now made him finish with me as he’s scared that if she’s finds out about us she will be mad and come off the mortgage and he will loose his house. I agreed to just date and not become official until it’s gone through but he’s scared she will find out.
I like him and do think I could have a really good relationship with him but don’t know what I can do to help with his situation. We have only been dating a few months so I can’t go on his mortgage.
Do I just move on or is there something he can do ??
Any advice will help