Lockdown - getting over marriage

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How do I get over my ex dh, stop thinking of him and OW when it’s lockdown and I have young kids.

Write down all the shit he has done to you. How he has mistreated you and how he treated you like a doormat
Then you write a list of things you deserve. And you realise more and more that exh is not anything like what you need nor deserve.
Because you deserve more.

I think it’s more how do I fill my time really. If it wasn’t lockdown and winter I could be out doing stuff to keep my mind off it.

Can you still get out for walks? Maybe learn a new hobby at home. I'm learning a hobby and it requires me to
Learn Software also.

It's really hard this time of year isn't it. How old are your DC? Is it time on your own you're struggling to fill, or time with them?

Youngest is 2.5 so can’t do very long walks (she hates being in a pram).

It’s more time with my kids really. Seem to spend most our time indoors. If it wasn’t lockdown we could do soft play etc and if it was better weather we could play outside.