Hi everyone,
I felt I just needed to talk to people. I haven't told any of my family or friends that my relationship is seemingly over yet as I can't face it. I have 2 girls with a man I have been with for 14 years and I am 22 weeks pregnant with our third.
Over the last few months I have felt my other half has treated me appallingly. He is rude, critical and hateful. He shows no interest in our coming baby. He is a difficult man and always has been but has seemed to hate me for months. I work full time as a teacher, I do everything for the kids and I do all the house work. He works hard for his own business that he is very proud of. We earn equal amounts. After arguments for weeks, last night an argument blew up and he said I make him absolutely miserable and life would be better without me around. So I said we needed to break up and he agreed. This has happened hundreds of times and eventually neither of us want to leave the family house so we forget about it. This time I went through it with him and he agreed to go which he has never done before. I think he agrees that we are both miserable.
So he is gone. No communication. I am left with my girls and a bulging belly and I feel very sad. Any advice would be appreciated. I guess the saddest thing is he isn't even going to try to make things better.