So I'm new here and not sure if this is the right place to post....
Myself and Ex have been separated since November 13th. Very up and down relationship of 14 years, eventually ended because ex had trust issues with me/was very insecure... Despite me being entirely faithful. I left with the kids as he would have never moved out of the family home (his 'dream' home)
So he text Christmas Eve asking to see the kids for a few hours on Christmas Day. He hadn't seen them by choice for a week.
When I dropped them off today I tried to hand over a carrier bag with a present for him off the kids and one for his mum off the kids. He refused completely to take it, saying he didn't want it. So I left it in the hallway. When I collected kids a few hours later, he had put their toys in the bag with the presents, ready to hand back to me. I noticed and asked if he wants the one for his mother, and he said no, he wants nothing from me.
So now I have Nanny's gift off the kids, is it out of order for me to drop it over myself to Nanny's (his mother's)?
I think of I do, i might get an angry message off him for doing so, but I want the kids Nan to have her present (it's a framed photo of the kids - same as most years)