How do I learn that and not forget it. I've just realised that since my marriage I've given up a lot of things and he's taken advantage of that. He's not my responsibility. I'm a SAHM and he doesn't really support me. I have to argue about every penny I spent or can't use. I don't even buy much for myself and I don't think that's fair. He does let me use it but he's really stingy. He's not grateful for me. I'm really frugal and try to save but he never saves.
He gives his parents money and then I think why do I buy cheap stuff just so that we can save. We don't have our own house either we rent. I try to save as much as we can but it's his job to save it and he doesn't.