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Separated and living together

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Amanda87 · 24/12/2020 12:58

I've come to terms and realized that my marriage will never work. There's no communication, husband is cheap, angry and stressed all the time. When we fight he won't talk to me for days and will basically say ok to whatever I say and show absolutely no emotions, no sadness, NOTHING!
Right now at Xmas time we had a horrible fight over how I spend our money and I'm not even gonna get into the specifics. The fact is that he just thinks he's right all the time and that he's the boss.

I'm so sick of this attitude. We were trying for a baby because my biggest dream is being a mother. But I'm dreading the fact that I might be pregnant and have to deal with this for my entire life. So I've decided I want to leave him. We bought a house recently, it's my dream house but I don't think I could stay here long because of my mental health and how it breaks me that he thinks everything is normal and that I'm being dramatic and that this is gonna pass.
I don't want to give up on my house so I guess I'd have to stick around for a while until I figure out the legal side of all that.

Question is: Has anyone gone through that? How to survive? I'm seriously devastated, broken, sad all the time for everything I've invested on a person that clearly doesn't care about my feelings.
Please share your stories. I'm about to list my mind but I don't want to lose my cool.

Thanks and Merry Xmas y'all!

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