My husband has done f**k all to prepare for christmas this year. I've bought all the kids presents, done most of the food shopping. Which is the norm, so I'm not surprised. But the most selfish thing this year is that he wont take a covid test before we see my parents on christmas day. I could get one through work and for people in my household, but he wouldn't do it. Said that he was quite happy with his routine atm and didn't want a test telling him that he might have to isolate. He's convinced he hasn't got it because he hasn't given it to anyone that he works with! Our tests have all come back negative, so he says that he cant have it if we dont. He's probably right, but the fact that he wasn't prepared to take a test to help keep my parents safe has upset me. I thought he liked them, but obviously not enough. We've been together 30 years, and I've told him in the past that he's selfish. He just thinks he's pragmatic.