Would it upset you(sex related)?

[Avocadobathroom7]

If a newish partner orgasmed a lot when you were intimate, more than once every time,but had only managed to do it for you 2 or 3 times?

I honestly felt like crying afterward the other day :( sad I realise but I am not perhaps as easy to get there as them, but I can get there if someone takes their time to know my body.

Depends. I'm someone who orgasms really easily, so yes, would be a BIG issue for me. If I was hit and miss on that front anyway, as in with previous partners, then probably wouldn't bother me as much.

to be honest it will kill your libido if someone repeatedly gets you close then stops. Because your body will stop responding - it will make it harder for you to orgasm, because you wont expect to finish, so why bother.
I wish Id said something when this happened to me - to be honest, the more often you are brought to orgasm, the easier it is, but this stopping short business really kills it.
has she a reply as to why she stops, because once she is done, you are not done, unless you are done too.

I feel like there’s a stigma around “shit sex” and not orgasming.

I have amazing sex with my OH. But I cannot orgasm. Even by myself it’s a real struggle and I’ve not had many in my life at all. My OH is the only person who’s actually ever been able to achieve an orgasm for me ever. But even so, I probably only have one every 4-6 months.

There are a number of reason people don’t orgasm, it’s not always just down to shit sex.

Forgive my ignorance but with two women isn't there usually an element of taking in turns here? Why are you helping her finish before you have in that case?

Not really sure what you mean codename ?
I wouldn't say I help other than we just have sex when I've not yet orgasmed and she orgasms thru sex and I don't. If I'm on top then perhaps I should refuse until I've orgasmed though. Point taken on that. I also guess I like her to be pleasured so I feel bad for stopping her if she's ready. She is more easily physically turned on than I am I guess.

Nettle that is scary

@MajesticWhine

That would upset me if they weren't really trying. But you need to talk to them and tell them what you want.

This

Sorry, x-posted. If you've already had many conversations and she's ignoring them and not interested in your pleasure the. That would be a dealbreaker for me.