He doesn't listen and calls me crazy

[Notanybody]

This seems to be the pattern now.
Try talking to DH about an issue or something that's bothering me but he's learned this stock response. I'm often called "crazy" and "unreasonable". This seems to be his go-to response now before he even tries to understand where I might be coming from.

It's now making me crazy and unreasonable. He obviously doesn't respect me or my thoughts and feelings. Emotionally, I'm a bit of a mess.

There's no hope for us is there?

It’s a lost cause to be honest

Please leave him. You are being gas lit. Same happened to me. I was constantly berated, insulted and told I was going insane and losing my mind whenever I was upset about something (usually him goading me into an argument and when I'd get upset/confused by him flipping the situation, he would call me mental and say I was overreacting). Got to the point that I thought I was very mentally unwell, and planned to drive my car off a local bridge. The penny finally dropped when I was sat in my car, thinking it all over, and I drove back to tell him what I'd realised. He called me disgusting and disturbed for ever thinking he would lie about how I was acting, and finished with me not long after.

Please leave ASAP. People like this will melt your brain. You know your truth, do not let the bastard plant any seeds of doubt.

Hello OP are you Carrie Symonds?