This will probably sound ridiculous and first world country kinda problem, but I've noticed everytime my husband is around the kids, it's like he forgets I exist. I mean, OBVIOUSLY kids are a priority, bla bla bla and I understand that. I just think that we should put our marriage in a higher place too in order not to just take the partner for granted.
I feel like sometimes he will give me zero attention when with the kids, spoil them to the level they can go to bed whatever time they want in the weekend and then he's too tired to hangout with me...
Not too sure how to approach this without being rude to him and making him feel like I'm being selfish.