My husband has left me

[Josephineo]

I am struggling so bad. My husband walked out on me and our family. I haven’t eaten for three days. I am heartbroken.

Oh sweetheart! Did he say why? Was it out of the blue?

Oh darling! You are worth so much more than you will ever know! He's done you a favor by walking away... He didn't deserve you/your family or your heart.

Please do not put your health on the line for someone who couldn't think twice about you. It's not going to easy but you will find your happiness in things/people you never knew existed. Please eat and keep yourself distracted. Very very easily said than done I know but you putting your health on the line for an *hole is not going to make things any better for you.

Big big hugs to you. I hope you have some real life support with you at this time.

Oh, I am so sorry to hear that. What an awful thing to do just before Christmas.
How old are your children? Do you have any family/friends nearby?

This may turn out to be one of the best early Christmas presents you will ever get.

big hug op I'm so sorry to here this. Do you have any friends or family nearby who can offer real life support? Maybe watch the children for a bit? Try and eat little and often , any thing that you fancy? A favourite biscuit/ cake? Can't believe that he has walked out on his family he clearly doesn't deserve you xxxxxxxx

Thank you. I have a good support network but don’t want to be a burden to them. My kids don’t know and I am having to hold it all together. Home, fairy lights and a happy Christmas. I really just want to sleep and check out from all the pain. My heart is breaking.... I feel so depressed.

You don’t have to hold it together. You really don’t. You need help and support. Reach out. You don’t have to be a martyr. How old are your kids?

Oh dear, I,m so sorry to hear that.

I think you should tell your close family, you need support and help if possible.
Also make an appointment with the Gp, they can be really good, tell them your not eating and sleeping.

You must eat, try some complans, fortisips to get some energy.
Sweet tea, drinking chocolate, your body is under a lot of stress.
Please look after youself.

Why did he go, did he say?
Total shithead doing this just before Christmas aswell. Twat.

Sending hugs to you and a warm hand hold. You need to reach out to everyone around you and smother yourself in love and reassurance. He's a heartless twat.