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New friend(?)

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pinkdragons · 15/12/2020 20:56

I recently moved to a new area.
Don't know anyone.
Got speaking to a fellow mum at the school gates, we have 2 DC both the same age. I invited her round to mine for coffee (when that was allowed), we went for lunch in town twice and a walk. It was early on in the friendship. Anyway she went a bit funny and started ignoring me at the school gates. I messaged her to see if she fancied a walk one day, she said she couldn't. She unfollowed me on Instagram. I only realised as she then tried to re add me (I don't know how recent the unfollowing was as I hadn't noticed).

Ok I left it, but I still see her on the school run. Should I bother saying hello & making conversation, or just leave it. It's awkward because her DC will say hello to me as we pass.

It feels very silly.. But don't know what to do?

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AliceinBunniland · 15/12/2020 21:07

Maybe she unfollowed you by accident and that's why she's trying to add you again

I'd probably just see if she talks to you otherwise don't bother

smashedspuds · 15/12/2020 21:07

Her behaviour seems strange, but it wont cost you anything to be nice or to be the bigger person.

A hello once in a while, even if just for the sake of the kids wont hurt. If she's receptive back you can take it from there if you do want to keep a friendship going with her.

pinkdragons · 15/12/2020 21:19

I wondered if it could have been an accidental unfollow. But it's more than one click so some thought/ intention must have gone in to it

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Sunflower1970 · 16/12/2020 03:52

I’d just be polite. If she wants to be your friend she will approach you

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