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Sounds silly, but does this mean anything? (Instagram)

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Interview2020 · 14/12/2020 19:43

I had a 'friend' 5/6 years ago, I really liked him and we ended up flirting, kissed etc but nothing ever came of it. I was young and very shy at the time so I found it hard to tell him how I felt. He ended up getting a girlfriend, and our friendship slowly fizzled out. He's one of those that despite not talking in years, I've never frogotten and have never quite found someone I'm into as much as I was with him.

He very rarely posts on social media (last post dates back to 2018) and it sounds silly but I've always noticed him near the top of my story viewers (generally meaning he has looked at my profile). I've never thought anything of it as I often look at ex's profiles just out of interest and not because I still like them etc.

But, a few days ago he liked one of my photos (posted a few months ago) then unliked it, so I thought he'd been browsing and accidently clicked the like button (easily done). A few minutes later he liked around 5 more pictures (not so easily done if this was a mistake). They've now been unliked. The same happened around 10 minutes later (a couple more pictures liked then unliked).

Despite never putting stories on, he then put a story up around an hour later (very random one). Seems like this may have been to see if I viewed it or was online to notice he'd liked the pictures? Probably sounds crazy saying that, but he hasn't posted in years so it seems coincidental that he's liked these pictures then very shortly after posted a story.

What do you think this mean? Tbh, I'm not overly bothered if he was or wasnt trying to get my attention (although I would be happy to talk if he was single). I'm just a bit puzzled why he wouldn't directly message me if he wanted too? Confused...

OP posts:
ravenmum · 14/12/2020 19:49

Maybe he was pissed?

ravenmum · 14/12/2020 19:50

Message him yourself and ask?

ReeseWitherfork · 14/12/2020 19:50

He may have just been looking at your social media and being a bit of a novice has clicked things he didn't mean to.

But if he is playing games then... well... he's playing games. Not a fan of that myself.

Interview2020 · 14/12/2020 20:51

@ravenmum yes entirely possible as it was late evening... I don't really want to go there incase it was an accident/he has a girlfriend.

@ReeseWitherfork he used to use it a lot so I doubt it, but I agree I'm not into that either if that is what he's up to Confused

OP posts:
LittleRa · 14/12/2020 21:38

Maybe his girlfriend was looking at your profile and accidentally liked your photos?

whatdoesthismeaneh · 14/12/2020 23:00

Sounds like he needs to grow a pair and send you a message. It clearly wasn't an accident.

weightedpunch · 14/12/2020 23:46

He was probably wanting to see your reaction and whether you'd message him about it. If you're up for talking to him I'd send him a message a bit in jest about it (but not too flirty just in case he has a girlfriend) and see where it got a from there. Nothing to lose really Smile

Rybvita · 14/12/2020 23:52

Does he have a girlfriend?

If not, nothing to lose by getting directly in contact with him again, in a 'long time, how are you' way? If he's interested he will be ecstatic and respond, if he doesn't respond (which i doubt), you haven't lost anything. He may have felt exactly the same about you all this time but doubted whether you were properly into him so made himself move on. Still keep your wits about you though, and make sure he treats you with respect if he returns to your life again

Isthisnothing · 15/12/2020 15:52

I'd send one very casual "hey stranger, how are you?" And see where it goes.

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