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I feel so utterly miserable today..

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Neomfan12 · 13/12/2020 17:09

Long story short. LTR majority very good..it felt like we were best friends with all the good bits that go with it.
Few arguments over the years as you'd expect but I felt we knew each other inside out and moving together was our next step. I felt so sure this was the right thing to do.
But neither will budge on who moves.. Its been back and forth and for reasons I won't go into I've decided to call it a day. We had an ammicable talk and both said how much we lived each other etc and then sadly ended the call. Its one of the worst relationships ever because I have no idea how you get past this without the usual reasons?
I feel so lost.. I've been in bed all day crying. Christmas looming..i feel awful

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Onthedunes · 13/12/2020 17:47

Why can't both of you move?

Neomfan12 · 13/12/2020 21:22

Because he's unwilling

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Onthedunes · 13/12/2020 21:43

You don't want to move to his house then, does he live quite a way from yours?

greenspacesoverthere · 13/12/2020 21:45

If there's no compromise on living arrangements then you've done the right thing.

changedmynameforChristmas · 13/12/2020 21:46

Can't you move to his and rent yours out. That way you always have somewhere to return if things go wrong

Neomfan12 · 13/12/2020 21:56

I can't due to my job.. I guess we thought it would be easy

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