I have a friend, and we used to be very close. She was my bridesmaid at my wedding. But over the years, we have now drifted apart. Nothing bad or dramatic - we both had to move for work, and developed different interests. It's now however been over a year since we had any contact.
She has been with her bf for 4 years, they moved in together 2 years ago - into the flat she owns.
I'm now divorced and was Tindering over the Summer, and came across her bf. He was definitely active within the last 24 hours (there is a flag on the app), had a full profile and lots of pics - so looked like he was actually interested in dating (rather than just browsing if you see what I mean). I assumed maybe they had broken up - however, heard from a mutual friend that they are still living together and in fact she's hoping he proposes this year.
I told our mutual friend about this (no one else knows and I want to keep it that way), as he is much closer to her these days than I am. And he said he would let her know somehow. This was back in June. But he hasn't said anything yet - and I get the feeling he doesn't want to get involved. He's tends to avoid any conflict as is a bit on the spectrum. Her bf is STILL on Tinder (and has since updated his profile even) and I've heard she is now about to start a business with him, and move out to the country to be closer to his family.
I do not know whether I should say something? It seems horrible though to not have contact for over a year and then get in touch with such awful news. However, she was someone I cared a lot about and don't want her to get more entangled without knowing what he's upto.
What would you do if you were me?