So we've been dating a while and things have been going great. She's been so affectionate and loving towards me, met the parents, she's always saying how she wants a future with me etc. She argues things for the future for us to do together. This week she has been unwell (infection) but she drove to see me the other day which is an hour away, bought me a gift and spent a good few hours before she had to return to work.
This week however, she doesn't seem herself towards me, we always 'love you' when ending a conversation on the phone but the last few times she's said it either really quietly or not at all. She almost seems more distant. But over message she tells me she wants a future together, she even said two days ago she wants me for life. She says on message that she loves me so much, calls me perfect, says she feels lucky to have me by her side, she mentioned just yesterday she said told her friend about me and that's she is going to tell her other friend over the weekend that we are more serious. She always rings on her lunch breaks and makes arrangements to see me. She's even booked holidays off to take me away for my birthday.
It all sounds great but she also has started sounding less enthusiastic, less loving and not asking as much about my day etc. She has invited me over at new year for a good few days but today said she had a thought about me leaving my parents for new year and that's it's unfair on them. It almost sounded like she was trying to get me to change plans? Maybe I'm overthinking?
I guess it's just a gut feeling I have. I do overthink sometimes and perhaps I'm looking for ever little thing that doesn't feel right? She hasn't been well this week and is working very long hours, maybe that could be the reason? I don't want to ask because I feel I'll come across need, especially when she's not been feeling well.
I'm just looking for an outsiders opinion on this.