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Need a womans perspective. Paranoid she doesn't love me.

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Redarrowfan12 · 10/12/2020 16:46

My girlfriend says she loves me but I don't know why I'm paranoid she doesn't!

She says she loves me so much, travels an hour to see me, has met my parents and I have met her parents. Took me to see her nans grave, who she was very close to. Makes plans to see me, has planned seeing eachother over Xmas. Come see up with ideas of things to do together. Insists on paying her way when we go for a meal. Says she wishes she could come home to me, says she wants a future with me. Calls me a lot throughout the day. Says I bring out the best in her and I make her happy. Says she misses me, and is planning a birthday gift for me early next year. Says she's never felt so relaxed, comfortable and loved by anyone before. That I mean the world to her and she thinks we have something special together.

She also says she wants to make me happy, when I tell her She does make me happy she says, 'that's all I want'

For some reason I'm paranoid that she is some how pretending that she likes me. Am I overthinking?

OP posts:
C0NNIE · 11/12/2020 15:59

Please get some counselling for your issues, they are not your Gfs problems to fix.

JorisBonson · 11/12/2020 16:06

Are you both quite young?

Redarrowfan12 · 11/12/2020 17:39

@JorisBonson late 20s/ early 30s

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