i had ds 8 months ago and have become progressivelt less and less interested in having sex with my dp. we had a fantastic sex life before i got pregnant. i absolutely loved it with dp. i don't know what to do as i love hime very much and i really want to get back to where we were previously. I think there are 3 reasons why things are not happening: - 1. i am knackered all the time 2, still breastfeeding which i have heard can lead to lower libido and 3, and this one i feel bad about saying but my dp has put on loads of weight since i got pregnant and i just don't find him as physically attractive as i used to. Help...i really want to change this situation. i am also on the mini pill which may be affecting it. How do i get back to the great sex we used to have..will it ever be the same again. it is so annoying as i had a fab home birth with no need for stiches or anything intervention so that is not the reason for feeling like this...
i need advice!!!!