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howsicklyarsekissy · 08/12/2020 12:30

Found this recently and it's made me question my current on line search for a boyfriend, (which is 18 months & is really not going well) I am reasonably attractive and feminine, get lots of attention on line dating from men but I just don't have any attraction to the guys I am meeting up with! I knew I was bisexual since being a teenager but I have never had a proper relationship with a women. I am a divorced women (from a man) of 45 with teenagers. The more I watch it the more I am considering changing my search to try and date women. Has anyone found a great relationship with a women at my age? I am think Anna Richardson did it at my age & appears really happy!

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TrollTheRespawnJeremy · 08/12/2020 14:17

Why worry about what others have done. Do what makes you happy.

CoffeeRunner · 08/12/2020 14:21

Can you not look for both men & women? Why do you have to narrow it down to one or the other if you’re bisexual?

Just date people of either gender who take your fancy & see what happens.

4cats2kids · 08/12/2020 15:13

I was in the same situation at age 35 when I met my wife online. That was seven years ago now. Go for it!

howsicklyarsekissy · 08/12/2020 15:21

Thanks for reply's. where I live isn't very cosmopolitan and I just wanted to know if it had worked for anyone really or any positive outcomes x

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Blueuggboots · 08/12/2020 15:23

I was married and left my husband for my work colleague. That was over 7 years ago and we're still incredibly happy. I've never regretted it.

8obbingabout · 08/12/2020 15:24

Hi OP,

Firstly I am so excited for you! Get out there and discover women asap. A relationship both physically and mentally between men and women is completely different. Don't waste anymore time looking for the wrong man. Women are amazing but I know you already knew that. If its not for you you will figure that our fairly quickly.

Good Luck and enjoy yourself! x

Tinseltastix · 08/12/2020 15:28

One you end up in lesbian tik tok you will never get out! 😉

If you’re bi there is no reason not to just go for women. I ended my marriage and came out at 28 (gay) never been happier

howsicklyarsekissy · 08/12/2020 21:20

Thank you all! lots of positive stories. Thanks for replying. I have just sorted my match search to look for women, it's complicated but they sorted it for me.

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Blueuggboots · 10/12/2020 07:46

Sorry, should have said - my colleague was a woman!!!

FMyUterus · 10/12/2020 09:04

If my husband died I'd only date women

confusoedimezzaeta · 12/12/2020 19:52

Same @FMyUterus

karenlovesherkidsxx · 12/12/2020 21:46

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