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How on earth do we meet people at the moment apart from online dating?

8 replies

alwaysupdating · 06/12/2020 21:41

I don't like online dating but I would like to meet someone new, any idea how?

I've been single a while and I would like to meet someone to spend time with but honestly even if we go to a pub we won't be socialising there with. Any ideas
ConfusedHmm

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Sadlonely67 · 06/12/2020 22:34

I’d like to know as well

insiwinsi · 06/12/2020 22:36

no idea, but are there any online meetups / groups e.g. book club or similar? you might get to know people on there. Also maybe volunteering for a service that's in-person during covid - e.g. food bank. Outdoor walking clubs - depends on your area and whether it's allowed in a group according to tier - not sure.

insiwinsi · 06/12/2020 22:37

ask your friends to set you up on a blind date?

FinallyHere · 06/12/2020 22:52

Walking groups, sports clubs.

Any shared interest gives you the opportunity to get to know someone and see what sort of person they are, before you decide whether to date.

darkinthemiddleofthenight · 07/12/2020 06:56

This current situation won't be around forever. Honestly, online dating is so dire that I'd be happy to wait until it were all over if I were you!

NewYearHere20 · 07/12/2020 13:26

When things start opening up again you could try "Meet ups" Search your area for any groups that match your interests. You could make some nice platonic friendships on the way too.
In the meantime I'm all out of ideas if OLD isn't your thing as so many groups are closed at the moment. On-line dating can work if you're lucky and could prove an amusing distraction while you wait for things to open up normally. Just don't take it too seriously.

alwaysupdating · 09/12/2020 15:07

Thank you all for the replies, I have looked on a local forum and can't see any walking groups, I have seen a cycle group but I don't have a bike Grin

I have been thinking about trying a crossfit class (although I'm worried I could die as its hardcore) as I'm thinking there will be hopefully some fit guys there Smile

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PatsyClinSilVousPlait · 09/12/2020 15:57

Exercise classes, running club or the gym are as good a starting point as any.

And speak to people when you're out and about. A friend got chatted up by a builder over the summer, and after several weeks of small talk as she passed each day he asked for her number and they're together now. She passed it on her way to work and could easily have brushed him off or made clear she wasn't interested, but just being open to a chat worked out well for both of them.

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