Contact ex after years

[clock87]

Hey guys

I’m in thoughts of contacting an ex. It’s been a good few years and we broke up because I had a breakdown and it had always been a significant part of my life cos I was so poorly and I’ve struggled to forget it because someone saw a completely different side of me.

We did meet a couple of months after the break up and it was heated again I still wasn’t very well

I dunno I’ve always had the person back in my head I don’t want to get back with him but I dunno I just want to put a lid on it ... I also got pregnant at the time and lost it it was his.

I dunno stupid idea? It’s happened in 2014 wish I could shake him out of my head I dunno
I prob sound silly x

What do you want to happen when you get in touch ? I dont know op, your the person who knows fully what happenned so only you can make that call , personally in your situation I would leave it , it's perfectly natural to think of people from your past but it may stir up all kinds of negative thoughts and what if he rejects your attempt at contact how would you feel then ? Just be careful op you've got to put your own mental health and wellbeing first , it may be this guy is on a pedestal because he saw that side of you because you let him see it but it may not be what he wants to revisit either and I mean that in the nicest possible way take care op xx

I think contacting him again would be a very poor decision. Let the past remain in the past, especially given there was so much negativity involved. I doubt very much you will get the closure you think you might.

Very very risky thing to do. Tempting though it might be l feel no good will come of this. Sometimes the past really is best left there.