Cheating bf

[newmumtobe101]

I think my boyfriend could potentially be cheating on me or intending to do so...

He recently started acting shifty around me when he's got his phone, there is a certain girl that likes all of his posts/pictures on Facebook and Instagram. I asked him who she was and he said she's nobody, slept with her once in the past then never spoke to her again.

Don't judge me but I went on his phone and had a look at his Snapchat, he has a 4 day streak with this 'nobody' girl. I didn't read through all the messages because the thought of him cheating on me made me feel physically sick.

I'm also 7 months pregnant.

I want to get to the bottom of this so he doesn't keep doing it or if he is going to continue doing it then I can leave him. But I don't want him to know Iv been snooping.

What should I do?

Could you orchestrate it that you drop a tiny bit of water near his phone as a message comes in or something then be like “ I see you are talking to (insert name) again, you are just friends right, nothing going on there? “

I feel very sorry for you OP! You definitely do not deserve this. I think you should confront him and say you checked his phone.

I think it's fair to snoop if there were signs giving you just cause, and if the snooping turns up some info, then it is justified further. Anyway you could get another peek at it. I think you are going to have to be brave and read the content, because he's likely to deny if you confront him without evidence.

@babymum786

I feel very sorry for you OP! You definitely do not deserve this. I think you should confront him and say you checked his phone.

To be clear I also think this but I would have read the content of the messages first.

You already know he is a blatant liar. I understand not wanting to read the proof because that is likely to change your whole world. If you want the proof, read them, but don't expect him to be ok with that. He will make the issue about you snooping.

I'd want to know, as painful as that would be, because I would not stay with a cheater - ever.

I thought messaged on snap chat disappear....it’s a cheaters go to app as every convo is erased. I’d actually just be suspicious they’re talking via snap chat....