My ex of over year got in touch this weekend. He was thinking of me and wanted to catch up. We tend to speak small talk once a month and have met up for walks when the weather was nice. We keep in touch and on friendly terms. Just not heard from him much since he started a new relationship 2 months ago.
We did hook up quite a few times when we were both single. Flirty banter but it calmed down when we both started seeing others. I am now single.
Conversation turned very flirty. He was saying I could never entice him into bed now he is taken and other stuff. Challenging me to try to do it but saying he could resist me?! I cut the conversation saying he was taken so I wouldn’t.
He started to tell me about issues he was having with the new girlfriend. I listened and said it sounded stressful, she needy but he must love her if he is still there. I also know what he is like!
He turned up round at mines last night unexpectedly. We went for a walk and a big chat. No flirting just normal mates having a laugh. He ended up telling me about issues with his girlfriend. He didn’t seem happy. Said he wasn’t sure it will work out. She has no ambition to work, messed up his business so he stopped her doing it and has boundary issues.
Later he texted saying it was really nice to catch up. He said he won at not ending up in bed with him as my seducing didn’t work. I didn’t even try or want to as he has a girlfriend.
It was very flirty texting. I did say if he was single then yes we may hook up, but as your not, that option is not there. If you want to then be single.
I am not too sure if he is using me for an ego boost as his relationship is not great, wants to hook up behind his girlfriends back or is testing the waters to see if I was interested before he dumps the girlfriend.
I have feelings still, more sexual, but not too sure the initial issues of why we split will be resolved. I would never go there until he is single.
Why is he doing this?