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Family issues

5 replies

Trulyyours1 · 01/12/2020 17:28

Hey everyone so recently I have been getting into serious arguments with my younger sister. Last month she said some hurtful things to me, and instead of feeding into it , I let it go. Well a month goes by without speaking to her and she hasn’t apologized but asked to borrow my car.

The kind person in me agreed to let her use it but I asked for an apology in return. She didn’t like that and blamed me for our past argument. Although, other people witnessed and stated she was clearly in the wrong. This time she told me I’ve always been a horrible sister and she’s never liked me.

Apart of me want to internalized that, but the other part of me is trying to let it go. I no longer want a relationship with her but, It’s hard because she’s my sister. Any advice on what I should do!

OP posts:
Alys20 · 01/12/2020 17:36

Get your car back and tell her to fuck off.

7yo7yo · 01/12/2020 17:40

Stop being a doormat. She might respect you then.

Trulyyours1 · 01/12/2020 17:45

Ive definitely felt like doormat lately, so I respect that!

OP posts:
Trulyyours1 · 01/12/2020 17:46

I never gave her the car, which I’m happy about. The apology wasn’t sincere

OP posts:
7yo7yo · 01/12/2020 21:30

Good.
On the first step.
Now wait for her to make the next move.

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