I need some advice
My boyfriend (M27) and me (F24) only have sex once a month and I’ve come to realise that couples usually do it several times a week so why can’t we? Do you think he’s lost his attraction towards me? We’ve been together for three years and have a three month old. During my pregnancy we only had sex around 4-5 times. I’ve always wondered when he...you know.
Well for the past two nights he’s thought I was asleep and I felt the bed shaking a little and when I turn around he quickly clicks off of what he was on so it’s obviously porn. I don’t have a problem with porn itself because I watch it too sometimes...but that’s mainly because I feel like I don’t have sex enough in reality. Two nights ago we had sex and on that same night was the night I found out he watches it whilst I’m asleep. Why did he feel the need to watch it and masturbate only a few hours after we had sex?
Our three month old sleeps in our room so whenever this once a month sex actually happens he always initiates in the middle of the night, wakes me up and it’s only a quick and quiet thing. Mainly because baby is sleeping. But that’s the only time he’ll initiate it’s only ever in the middle of the night except from this one time a few days ago which was in the evening but that’s the first time in the evening this year!
The last time I tried to initiate he wanted to stop half way thought. It was his birthday morning and he stopped me and said “ later” we’ll that later never happened and it only happened then after that a few days later in the middle of the night so i haven’t bothered since. I just don’t get it? I feel so down lately and insecure like somethings off. Everything else is fine in the relationship, kisses, cuddles etc etc. Do you think he’s just bored of me or something.