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Ex broke up 3 months ago,Is he lying?

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iwantacocktailinapub · 30/11/2020 17:02

We broke up in September.
I don't really want to get into everything but it was a bad breakup,a lot of bad things said and quite toxic.
Anyway he blocked me on WhatsApp and I removed him from social media.
I ended up messaging his phone the other night just saying I wished it could have ended different.
He replied saying "you are the one who made this end bad,I only blocked you on WhatsApp incase you deleted messages and they weren't available anymore not because I didn't want to speak to you again ?? The you Went ahead and removed me off social media,it didn't have to be like that"
Then he went on a rant saying I was to blame etc
So basically my question is does that make any sense?
I thought he blocked me off WhatsApp to stop me messaging him.
Now he's saying that wasn't the reason
Is he wanting me to ask him to unblock me?
I couldn't delete past messages anyway so him blocking me made no difference.
We left things with me apologising to him but he hasn't unblocked me yet

Why did he

OP posts:
HallieKnight · 30/11/2020 17:04

It doesn't matter. Move on

tobedtoMNandfart · 30/11/2020 17:05

Ask yourself why you went back and invited more drama. So that you can form a more healthy relationship next time.

iwantacocktailinapub · 30/11/2020 17:06

I wanted to sort things out and if we couldn't at least leave it with no bad feeling.
Maybe even be friends

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tobedtoMNandfart · 30/11/2020 17:09

Well you extended the olive branch. He snapped it in two and handed it back so I'm guessing not.

JengaNonConfirming · 30/11/2020 17:09

Really, you were hoping to be friends!?! You obviously split up for a reason. Now is the time to block him and pick yourself up and recover. It is not the time to try and second guess his every move and prolong the drama.

VettiyaIruken · 30/11/2020 17:09

He's your ex for a reason. It's not logical to try to keep a hold of him.
It's always painful when a relationship ends but hanging on to a tiny bit of it is not the answer.

CodenameVillanelle · 30/11/2020 17:11

You can't be friends with him. Stop messaging him.

KittenCalledBob · 30/11/2020 17:12

It's possible to be friends with an ex, but usually only when the split is amicable and it certainly doesn't sound like this one was. Too much bad feeling and bitterness between you to get past.

JorisBonson · 30/11/2020 17:17

You again!

Save your good advice.

Ariela · 30/11/2020 17:55

He's an EX for a reason.
I suggest keep him that way. Move on.

JesseCluster · 01/12/2020 19:47

How long was you together?

HollowTalk · 01/12/2020 19:51

Hard to be friends with someone like this.

Bunnymumy · 01/12/2020 19:59

He's a jerk. He doesn't want yo be your friend. He is spiteful towards you. Never try to be friends with someone who obviously feels contempt for you. You wouldn't try to befriend a lion right? Keep him blocked and move on. He isnt a nice person and he doesn't want good things for you.

Bluntness100 · 01/12/2020 20:01

Do you want to get back with him? Is that it?

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