Dd is 2 and sees her dad every other weekend for 1 night (soon to be moving to 2 nights), she doesn't see him during the week due to the distance between households and despite being advised by courts to do video contact to keep up contact he refuses to do this. Contact couldn't happen every weekend as dd would be unable to see any family on my side (pre covid) and she also attends nursery so would give us no quality time.
Problem I am having is dd always returns from weekend in distress, is angry, unsettled, having nightmares. It usually takes a good few days for her to settle down. I've tried discussing with her dad but he just says she seems to be happy when with him, sleeps 14 hours straight in her own bed (she never does this for me, always ends up sneaking into my bed). And I'm wondering am I doing something? Is there anything I can do to help her?
She is more than happy to come back to me and at handover's she screams, her dad also wasn't ever involved with looking after her until June of this year (he was around but just didn't care for her and we split June 2019) if that helps.