Is this wise or am just peeved offfff

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So few days ago i made a post about my husband lying about his where abouts, not letting me see his phone when asked as his been meeting up apparently to fix this women's car. Which he has been telling me it's his guy mate. He did this free so she could promote his business

Anyways we though was best to take time away from eachother. Hes been texting me he misses us but I've now seen ive been blocked on his social media account. Hes told me he has had to do that as ive got an issue with this women and that this women could be a potential client. Like wtf whys this bitch so important more then me.

We thought we would try sort this but its not looking any gd is it. I don't know whether i should message this other women or just fuck it off as i dont think he will tell me much

Sorry OP but your dh sounds like he's looking elsewhere.
Very dodgy.
I think you have to start planning an exit strategy.

@Oreservoir im beyond annoyed. I told him this girl needs 2 go enough dramas been caused. He's telling me its nothing he would never its strictly business. Im numb

Whatever you do;do not contact this woman.It won't make things any better.

As for his relationship with this OW;if it's not a physical relationship already it certainly sounds as though he's trying to lay the foundations for one.

The blocking you on fb,the lying saying it's a male friend,the secret behaviour with his phone well it looks like he's hiding something.

It might be that the OW isn't actually interested in him and he's got it into his head she is or he's attempting to persue her.

He's a dickhead.

@popsydoodle4444 i asked him why he didn't let me see his goes i was tired you know i had to be up for work early. Surely if im getting doubts he shouldn't have hesitated even if hes got work early.

He seems to be thinking im stupid or something clearly is choosing her over me which i dont get why. Cant be over that she will get him potential clients? Clients, her over our marriage really ffs just so frustrating

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OP he's not being honest with you, I'm angry on his behalf. He's either seeing her, or is about to start to and is lying to you, to keep you hanging on just in case it doesn't work out. You see it lots on here where men string their partners along when they're looking elsewhere.

Simply put, he shouldn't be putting her ahead of you, business or not. Tell him it's over and protect yourself

Sorry! Angry on your behalf!!! Not his, he's being a bastard.

Don’t contact her. Just block him and move on.

We had a similar situation. A friend pointed out that in fact it was irrelevant what the situation with the OW was, I'd told him it was hurting me and he still continued. I was supposed to be his priority, but I wasn't. We spent hundreds of pounds on counselling and I thought we were getting somewhere. Then he took her out on a day trip with our kids while I was working. If you can, just cut ties and leave would be my advice!

Aren't you too tired to keep pushing water uphill when it comes to this relationship? It isn't working and he's not as invested as you are. You're preoccupied with what he's doing because you aren't secure in the relationship (understandably as he sounds from your other threads like a bit of an immature dick) so it's not working out. You really need to just accept that and break up.

I'd ditch him.

But I'd also message her with a link to this thread.

Hes added me back today, has unfriended her but why has it taken this much days.

Message him or her??

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I'd just not take him back. He isn't honest. And be thinks he can blah his way out of his dishonesty by making you feel insecure. I don't think she is even the issue, his game playing is.

Thank you for your advice. Been very hard especially as ive not mentioned anything to anyone in Real life.

I was feeling maybe im taking it 2 far.

Nah op. If he had nothing to hide he would have had no problem showing you his phone.

The things he comes out with too are such rubbish.

Not overreacting at all. Do you have anyone in real life who would be supportive to talk to?