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Nothin2seehere · 24/11/2020 17:27

Please excuse me for posting here, I'm new and a friend advised me to ask on here for advice as mumsnet has helped her in the past with helpful advice. I will try and keep it brief. Basically I have been in a new relationship 2 years, we went through a rough patch a few months ago after a drunken argument (no violence involved) but told my manager of he shows up at my workplace as he said he would to turn him away as he is abusive and I no longer want to be with him (stupid I know) I've now found out I'm. Pregnant and I'm worried about what my work will thibk. We don't live together and I want to keep the baby as I'm getting older now and feel this is my last chance, have 3 dc with ex dh. I just worry what my work wi think after I said he was abusive and I'm no longer seeing him. We are taking things slow and both want the baby. Does anyone have any advise on how to approach my workplace as my anxiety is really bad at the moment and it's easting away at me.

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Aquamarine1029 · 24/11/2020 17:29

Whatever your boss thinks about your pregnancy is irrelevant. It's none of their business.

seensome · 24/11/2020 17:35

It's not up to your work to cast judgement on your personal life, only tell them when your ready to for appointments send maternity leave request, you don't need to discuss your relationship with them, your having a baby and your happy about it so sod them.

katieg03 · 24/11/2020 17:41

You are not obligated to tell your work about the ins and outs of your relationship unless it affects your work. If he's turning up to your workplace however that's a different story

Nothin2seehere · 24/11/2020 17:42

The thing that worries me as I work in. Healthcare they take abuse very seriously and even told me to. Change the locks and made me agree I should block him, it was us both being silly and nasty to each other, but I was so worried he was going to tell my work we were drunk (he thretned to do) I had to go on the defensive and say he was abusive 😩

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