So just need some advice i feel bit fragile at the minute as this is getting to much for me so i dont want to make it long
Me and husband having been having a rocky relationship for some while about a year id say. He lies to me about small things, makes no effort, no affection unless we're having sex and he tells me this is because of work as hes self employed he needs to really get his business going. We were last trying to build the trust he broke but as hes been so secretive with his phone - takes it to the shower with him, has it in his pocket, basically you wont see it ever. So ive asked to see it not to snope but i want to just see. (i only wanted to see if he'd give it, that would have been enough for me to take one step forward on trusting him. I wouldn't have even looked) He ofcourse refused like always and said im being difficult, its ridiculous i have to ask for his phone, his got work and told me to leave it he needs to sleep to be up for work on time. Were sleeping in separate rooms for now
Bare in mind we are trying to fix this relationship, its only been 3 days since he lied about who he was with so im not asking randomly. No doubt hes very hardworking and a great father but Ive been very on edge with myself for few days, thinking and thinking what other things he may be lying about.
Am I? I didn't break the trust.i dont know if im being extremely unreasonable
Advice anyone please