I am late 20s, single, lived away from home for 10+years but come back to my parents' place for a few weeks of lockdown. Wanted to spend time together, they are not getting younger, and also was nice to be looked after for a bit and an excuse to hang out. I have an intense job so annoyingly have been stuck at the computer for a lot longer than I would have liked (WFH) while they are both retired and have been for many years
We get on well although they are ageing and dm especially still stuck on whole parent-child dynamics - her house, her rules, does not really compute that I am an adult now. We do get on normally though and I am trying to enjoy quality time and not sweat the small stuff
Roll on this evening, dm asked if I wanted dinner, I said no thanks, don't make any for me as had work to do. Currently holed up in bedroom doing said work. Dinner time comes, whole house hysteria and screaming/shouting as dinner is on the table and I am not there. She comes up to my bedroom door and forcefully/loudly slams it, I assume to express displeasure... Screams at df who also lives there to come downstairs, both of them are very on edge and every little thing becomes a huge drama. He begs me to go and placate her. Now I am still doing work and neither of them is talking to me.
Is this a bit weird? There is lots more I can go into (stately homes stuff) but its taken me to adulthood to realise its not really ok. Fully accept I am out of order or being a bit precious