He never cared i guess

[ItsMamaBear121]

So if you know i posted before about the issues i was having about trust and effort with my husband

We spoke today and i decided to actually show him the thread as i felt he needs to know i wasnt overthinking and wrong for what i was feeling

Anyways i told him i want to separate as he keeps lying. (i want him to actually show remorse) but he has no feeling towards it. So tbh this is what should happen we shouldnt be together. Hes bought a new phone and just seems his more bothered woth that. Surely if he cared he would try and make sure he showed me how much i meant to him and how much he wouldnt want to loose me. Nothing Nada just fiddling with his new phone and a little sorry

Im just hurt thinking he may love me enough to try make it all better even after all the issues i have with him. I mean if my husband told me im leaving you because of what you keep doing id 100% be making the effort right way.

He defo isnt that into me is he. i made him my whole life. How will i deal. Just so upset

He's into him. It's his life.
Why change?... he won't be worse off for a while because he will enjoy the single life, and through the hard times he can play the victim card. Also there will be hope 6 months down the line once he's had his fun that he can crawl back to you and go therapy together.

If you had to show him a post then you know what to do.

Sorry if that's blunt. But I'm sick of seeing this situation over and over again it's heartbreaking pain

I haven't seen your other thread. I'm sorry this is happening to you. 💐

From what you've posted here it does sound like your relationship is over. You have expected him to realise that he still has feelings for you when you told him you wanted to leave. But that hasn't happened. In a way this is better for you. You know who he is and you know that he doesn't want this relationship with you. If he had said 'oh no, I've realised the error of my ways and now I'll be different' it's likely that it would have just delayed the inevitable.

You need to put yourself at the forefront of your own life now. Decide what you want and go from there.