What would you think of this situation so my husband and I have been having issues.
Lack of EFFORT & TRUST
Hes shady with his phone its always with him, shower, underpillow u name it.
Im an open book i leave it lying around anywhere so to me its wierd.
Anyways i spoke to him about my concerns as he follows so many women on his social media and most of these women have half naked pics up. To me that's disrespectful. He goes he doesnt know hes friends with them as he randomly adds them and its for business purposes and nothing more.
I asked to see his phone and he goes ok. I was shocked he opened up his social media to let me see and i see two women he been speaking to one i know so didnt even look thru his and her conversation but another one were hes been having ton loads of conversation with..
I went thru it and i see that he went to train her DOG. Nothing fishy just talking so so much even he doesnt talk to me that much.
I remember few weeks ago him telling me he went to train his mates DOG but he referred her as HE. Even mentioned hes training his really good friends DOG. He choose to train this dog rather then spend time at home knowing were having relationship issues and ive just had a newborn. I asked him and he goes i didnt tell u its a HER cause u would act like this. Bare in mind ive had conversations about never lying. I wouldn't ever betray the trust.
I dont understand after agreeing hes still never honest.
Hes always lying when he talks to his girl mates, hides it, and that pisses me off. I don't personally see why he needs to have long convos with other women. He never even can hold a convo with me as much as hes willing to hold long conversations woth these other women. It does hurt! Apparently im possessive, i have trust issues, im drama queen.
Well yeah i have trust issues with him from past when my first baby was born mostly lying where he is, who hes with, not coming home till sunrise, not answering my calls when out and drunk in these time going clubbing and lying. He keeps telling me it's all in the past and to forget it hes not like that. How can it be the past when hes never made an effort to help me work on the trust issues he himself caused and is still causing with these lies and makes no effort even though he can see this is hurting me.
I understand hes working and cant speak to me all the time but even cant speak to me properly at home?
Small or big lies i believe a lie is a lie and what else could he be lying about. Am i in for bigger lies tommorrow!
Am i right to feel fedup. All i keep hearing is somethings wrong with me. Do u think this is innocent, is it something i cant get thru my head or this is actually him and hes fishy!!
THANKS for reading. X