Me and my husband are constantly having the same fight he thinks the house is a mess and not upto his standards but as he works full time expects me to take care of everything our kids are 3 and 5 and I work 20 hours a week too. I really struggle to keep on top of housework. When I point out everything I do when he comments and the fact interacting with our kids wouldn’t happen if I Spent what he considers to be the right amount of time cleaning. He won’t help either with it at all. Apparently his financial input is sufficient in his opinion.
Firstly what’s wrong with a bit of noise and disorganisation in a family home?
He also says I have “excuses” lined up for not having done things. And we keep having the same argument every week he can’t accept my side and I won’t let him crack on with moaning because I find it disrespectful so it ends in a huge row. Where do we go from here to stop this continuing?