Long term relationship, two children. The woman has complex PTSD due to a previous abusive relationship which included SA.
The man of the couple is obsessed with his penis and hounds his partner endlessly, creating a faux sense of obligation on her part as he makes clear his expectations.
If for whatever reason the sex slows down he looks elsewhere, cheats and has affairs. He doesn't use protection and puts the mother of his children at risk of STD's.
The woman doesn't feel strong enough to leave due to her PTSD.
Can you tell me whether or not you feel this meets the threshold to be considered abuse?