Please not I had to post on this subject as the "sex" subject wont allow me yet
If you find casual sex or one night stands offensive then please just move along from this thread as I really don't want the judgement.
I came out of a long term relationship in August (about the last 6 months were not happy ones) I was really cut up and worried about being on my own etc feeling like that was it for me in the love department as at 27i see most people my age happy and married etc. Anyway fast forward almost 4 month.. I am the happiest I have been in a long time. I feel like I have lost a load of unwanted baggage.. I feel like I can breathe again and mentally Im in a good place.. Or so I thought.. Today I went round to a guys house for a cup of tea.. (yes a cuppa of all things😂) I have been talking to this guy for about a month now and I know him as we stay in the same town and have mutual connections etc. Anyway one thing led to another today and we ended up having sex.. Sorry for tmi..and now I feel awful about myself. I hate myself for jumping into bed with someone and for having so little self control 😭. My question is should I feel bad? Or why do I feel bad. Its almost like I feel like a dirty little tart 😂. Please tell me I'm not alone and this feeling will shift.