Hi. So I have never been to court before in my life, no idea how it works. I'm 19 with my 4 month old daughter. I dont want to go into too much detail but my now ex-partner got drunk, took my daughter out while drunk (i didn't know), came back and grabbed my throat then started screaming abuse at me and my daughter. He's pled not guilty, and i have to go to court to give evidence.
Does anybody have any advice/can explain it to me? I managed to record him shouting at me so i have that as evidence, how do i/can i show that in court? I also have the receipt from when he went out drunk (he took her to Tescos). I had called my mum when it happened and she could hear him screaming from outside when she came over, so can she be another witness?
Do i only mention what happened that night or should i mention other situations? E.g. I tried to break up with him before, he threatened to kill himself if he did and then on Facebook this night that's just happened where he was drunk he went live trying to do it, he also has cuts on his arms which he has told me are my fault, because im a horrible human being. I have the text messages to his mother telling her i didn't feel safe and wanting to break up with him before this happened but i was ignored as the last time I tried to break up he also started messaging people i know, his mum and my mum to tell them I am an abuser and a psychopath.
This isnt the first time he has been to court, last year he got drunk and assaulted me but he plead guilty, will that be taken in account for this situation? This is all new to me. Yes, im an idiot for sticking around with this guy.
Thank you