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Cheating bastard?

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palmersbodybutter · 14/11/2020 22:36

A message popped up on H's phone. It was face up, I clicked on it because it said "Kiera is following you". It's on an app called Komoot (cycling app). DH took up cycling about a year ago. Now I know from the wise women of MN that taking up cycling is a euphuism for an affair, he goes a few times a week for a few hours but does track his journey on this bloody app. I can't say I've ever been bothered or ever checked or been suspicious. I confronted him, he says he knows nothing about it and has stormed off. Relationship isn't great as he's been working from home since March and we are all sick of it but we have DC and hopefully he wouldn't be that stupid. I've added a photo of Kiera's dodgy profile pic FYI. When you click on it, it says page not found, so I suppose it could be phishing, but I'm not sure. Can anyone with a better idea of tech help me?

Cheating bastard?
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AriesTheRam · 15/11/2020 10:48

I get bots trying to add me on Instagram all the time

leolion1 · 15/11/2020 10:55

You are being ridiculous I'm not surprised he walked off. Clearly to anyone with any common sense it's a bot.

rainbowstardrops · 15/11/2020 11:03

It's probably just a spam thing but his reaction was way OTT! Why would he not have just shrugged his shoulders and laughed?

Anothernick · 15/11/2020 13:52

Taking up cycling is a euphemism for an affair? Says who? I took it up myself a few years ago because I wanted to drive less and keep fit. And as other have said the picture on your DHs phone is obviously a porn shot, no doubt trying to get him to connect to a paid for website. Happens all the time, nothing to worry about. His reaction sounds a bit OTT but I would be miffed if my DW saw something like that on my phone and instantly accused me of cheating.

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