Love-bites, I’m not sure what to think at my age of 37.

[Lovingthemanhair]

So I have just started seeing this guy and I noticed he had given me a faint love bite, to which I said I’m not really keen as I have a young daughter and a job where I don’t want it to be seen.

Also I’m like 37 not a teenager anymore.

Anyway, after the heat of the moment when I was too relaxed to really protest he has given me a bloody proper one, in a place that can’t really be seen. He said he thought of it as a bit of a challenge..... no one but me and him would see, although my daughter will when I undress......what am I to think???

I get the feeling he is a little immature and in experienced. Being a bit older I have a bit more experience. I will be firmer and make sure he is aware no means no and its some kind of kinky challenge. But I noticed the flag and will be aware.

How old is he?

How much younger? Regardless of age a 'don't do that' means exactly that! Being younger isn't a get out of jail free card for overstepping a boundary! He's more than capable of understanding what you said and what it meant.

Real men do not do this. What an utter twat. Straight to the bin because I wouldn't waste my time on him.

Disgusting at any age. Even more disgusting because you’ve said no. Bin him.

I love being kissed on my neck so faint love bites tend to be inevitable a bit - but I’d be pissed off if after telling DH not to leave one he did it anyway.

You said no and he chose to do it again.

He’s actually marked your body purposefully.

I wouldn’t want to continue a relationship with someone like that. It’s like he’s branding his property.

Are you desperate?

Ew. Run for the hills. You and your little one deserve better in your life.

Man-dickhead aside, your daughter is 5!? - just tell her it's a bruise

That's beyond a red flag, as PP's have said. You said you didn't consent to a thing being done to you again, and he did it regardless/even more.

Even if he were 18 or less, he would know that's not ok, and is doing it anyway.

Oh they are vile 🤢

Yuk. Deliberately putting one on you is putting an ownership brand on your flesh.

Just for your daughter to see, too?

Urrrrrrrrrgggggghhhhh

Oh yuck. It's back of the bike shed stuff. Figuratively speaking. Of course. Send him packing.